Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He discovered that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a walnut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, a woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. There are still some unanswered questions: is it present in every woman, and if so, can anyone achieve an orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G-spot
Your partner can search for the G-spot or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, apply a special lubricant there in advance. After inserting the fingers into the vagina, you need to bend them to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert lubricated fingers into the vagina, with the other hand lightly press the pubis, fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally slightly curved upwards, then you'll have more stimulation-promoting poses, even classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective position is for the woman on top and the partners to face each other.
What is a squirt orgasm
During G-spot stimulation, a girl may also experience a squirt orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific liquid is released from the girl's vagina. To achieve such an orgasm, the partner should insert lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, this should be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax with a massage oil massage. The girl should lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a squirt orgasm, there is an urge to urinate, but this feeling passes quickly and the desired pleasure comes. Still, it is recommended for your confidence to go to the bathroom before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls get results only after 2 weeks of training. You just need to learn to relax and fully trust your partner.
Where is the G-spot in women and how to find it? These intriguing questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to obtain indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this area. Men want to please their partners and at the same time increase their self-esteem as a talented and experienced lover. In this article we have tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the location range of the point is 1-10 cm, and it is far from always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will reward all your efforts. Above all, do not forget that in a calm state, the mysterious point is barely noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in volume and becomes quite palpable. The tip or rather the area has a slightly rough surface and is somewhat reminiscent of goosebumps or walnut skin, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina.
So, let's start looking for the magic point:
- First of all, strive to provoke strong arousal in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before its appearance or immediately after, the point is best probed.
- The most convenient for research is the position in which the partner is lying on her back, and her legs are widely spaced. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feeling the area below the pubic bone itself. Remember at the same time that numerical statistics on the location of the G-spot are not an axiom, and for different women the precious zone may not be in exactly the same places.
- In almost all the fair sex, this section of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite strongly and actively on the studied area. Ask the woman to suggest which direction you should move.
- If during your search for a partner you feel the urge to urinate, you are most likely on the right track. When you press on the G-spot, this reaction, accompanied by a feeling of discomfort, appears in many women. Rest assured, these types of feelings disappear quite quickly and are replaced by a growing feeling of arousal.
- The G-spot looks like a small hard lump, no bigger than a pea. Try grabbing it with two fingers. Then begin to rhythmically squeeze and loosen the mass, squeezing and releasing it, while trying to act powerfully and at the same time delicately in order to avoid injuring the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone talks about the G-spot, but few people talk about other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, the orgasm will no longer escape under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the miraculous properties of a special G-spot on a woman's body, but few people understand what is behind this name, and very few people know about the existenceat least 3 other special points, the stimulation of which will give a woman particularly pleasant sensations. These same erogenous zones in women are called A, K, U points, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones are on a woman's body, where they are, how to stimulate them, and what effect a woman will get from stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina. It is a hypersensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, containing 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, unlike other areas containing no more than 30 nerve endings. That is to say, the stimulation of this area will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be stimulated easily with a finger or a small vibrator that has the appropriate function and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women
Point A
Where is the female erogenous zone called point A located? You can find this intimate point on the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like G, a hypersensitive area 2 to 4 cm in size. With strong excitement, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly, and the male penis can penetrate her neck by almost 3 centimeters. In addition, this area does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which makes it possible to prolong the pleasure.
K-spot
Point K is located on the back wall of the vagina, and stimulation of this point is performed during anal intercourse, but on condition that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thickened. Stimulation of this zone, unlike the two previous zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences of love and affection for a partner, but delivers a particularly lively and vivid orgasm.
Sharp
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U-spot is soft erectile tissue, also permeated with nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissues. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. When stimulating the U-spot, there is a strong sexual desire and an urge to urinate at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U-spot, but also on the Skene's glands, the so-called "prostate gland" of a woman, located throughout the spongy body of the urethra. These zones are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or at the level of the neck itself. Their location is an important factor for the sensitivity of the U-spot. During normal sex, the U-spot is not affected, so it must be stimulated separately, with circular movements of the finger. Simultaneous stimulation of the G and U points in women sometimes leads to so-called "squirt" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All the erogenous zones are concentrated there. In fact, in the body of any man there is another powerful sexual tool that actively participates in every sexual encounter. This is the prostate or, in other words, the prostate.
In a fit of passion, few people remember the presence of a prostate. And completely in vain. She, like the main male sex organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists put it on a par with the female G-spot, because a competent effect on the prostate is accompanied by unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious area in a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for the precious point in your partner's body, ask him to prepare a little. A man should ideally clean the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetic.
- Do your best to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner uncertainty will lead to the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experience. Ask the man if he really wants to participate in this. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Cut your nails without fail. If you have elongated nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this leads to the appearance of microtraumas in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before, but also after searching for and finding the precious point. Do not touch the hand that was used to search for the male genital organ or your genitals, and even better, use disposable gloves. Thus, you will protect yourself from a variety of microorganisms from the partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Don't start looking for the prostate at the start of intercourse. It's best to move it when you feel the climax is about to begin. Otherwise, you can simply destroy your partner's sexual mood and even make him feel uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from the head and moving gently to his stomach and back. Pay particular attention to the buttocks. Massage your partner with gentle, gentle strokes.
- Leave your man lying on his back. At this time, you are going to sit between her legs and very gently and carefully insert your finger into her anus, while remembering to use vaseline oil or a special lubricant. Advance about 4 to 5 cm and try to feel on the front wall of the intestine on the side of the abdomen for a bulge the size of a chestnut.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably the right side, and press your knees firmly to your belly. This position will not only make it easier for you, but will also allow a man to have multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles relax to the maximum.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to receive absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
The stimulation of the erogenous zones allows both the man and his partner to reach orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - the ji point, they began to talk about it in the middle of the last century. There is still no unanimous opinion on the location of the G-spot. Women usually do not have problems determining its coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - 3-5 cm from the entrance. What the erogenous epicenter itself looks like can be seen on a special video. There are also photos in which a special place looks like a small bean.
To recognize the ji point, it is not necessary to study the video. This place is quite palpable with tactile inspection. If this area is stimulated, there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding an erogenous point is not difficult at all, for this you need to feel the anterior wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical for the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the G-spot is when a woman is sexually aroused. This area is less sensitive for all girls, so it needs to be stimulated additionally and actively. In order to master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
During sex, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a place. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, in order to detect the presence of the microzone ji, one of the optimal postures must be chosen.
These include the following provisions:
- the partner is late;
- the young girl assumes the pose of a horseman and leans strongly back.
Even a close study of a video or a photo is not always helpful in finding the answer, how to find the ji point? That doesn't mean your sex life will be any less impressive.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, the emotional rather than physiological sensations of sex prevail. Some girls note that they do not appreciate the stimulation of the g erogen chakra at all.
The older the women, the lower the use of the g factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, the task of finding a supererogenous point is relevant only for women who cannot experience an orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of the ji point of a partner?
If the problem of the location of the ji zone in women can be solved using a tactile method, then the question of how to find the g-spot of a partner is not at all difficult.
Finding such a place in the male half is even easier, you don't even need a training video. An analogue of the ji point is the prostate.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (it can be seen on the video). To get to a man's g-spot, you have to use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: a finger is gently inserted into the anus and a slight bulge is found on the side of the abdomen. This will be area g. It is located somewhere four or five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will appreciate such unusual sexual activity in women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively assess such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long sharp nails. If she managed to find the location of the g-zone, it is better to use a special lubricant for caresses. All these actions must be carried out with great delicacy.
If the partners decide to find a single g-zone, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the dedicated video above.
By mutual agreement, try to find the precious object called "g-spot" through a touch search. For some couples, the magic g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more vibrant.
By exploring each other's body, lovers can achieve real pleasure!